How to Wander (with Intention)

I love to wander.   

fern steps ©2012 kimcrayton

Exploration during a good wander is exhilarating, and it can be done anywhere at anytime.  Here I will address the “neighborhood wander,” or “local park wander.”   Small scale wandering can be done everyday, and is just right outside your doorstep.  It is wandering that is relatively low risk, and can be incorporated into your routine of daily life.

If you like to walk, you will love to wander.

To wander is to love, linger, appreciate, dream, move, explore, wonder.  A wander is more of a meander than a “ramble” or a “roam.”

A good wander is juicy and satisfying.

It clears the mind by awakening the senses.  By going off track, somehow, wandering can lead you back to what matters most in life.  It also sparks healthy curiosity about the world around you.

So let’s get to the basics of wandering:

treesky ©2012 kimcrayton

1. Find a place to wander. Around the block?  Down the street?  City park?  Amongst the trees on a park trail?  In a large flower garden?  Pick a place you feel most comfortable exploring.

2. Set aside time to wander.  This is a good way to set an intention.  To set a time aside to wander means it is something you value.  It enhances your life.  It may be a few hours.  It could be a few days.   Setting a time allows the space for your experience, and you will know the beginning and end.  Most people, with schedules and families etc.  feel comfortable with a set time to wander.  Set a time, even just ten minutes, to lose track of.

3.  The pace of wandering.  Slow.  Like pouring molasses.  Like a snake digesting.  Like a snail crossing a trail.

4. Music is optional. There are some great songs that can enhance rich wandering experience.  But often the sounds of your surroundings are enough.  Depending on where you wander, it is much more enjoyable to have all senses in full awareness.

5. Linger as if your life depended on it.  Lingering is my favorite part of wandering.  Wandering and lingering are best friends.   To linger is to connect and appreciate.  To linger is to love and gush all of your attention onto something simply because you choose too bathe in it’s complete awesomeness. I linger upon tall trees, rhododendrons (and most other flowers) and groups of tiny mushrooms (my friend calls them”mushroom cities”)

6.Make sure to look up at lush (or sparse) treetops.  Or at the clouds. Or at a soaring eagle.

7. Make sure to look down onto your path. Be careful to not trip on a root or rock, or squash a banana slug or disrupt an ant parade.

8. Put your “dog nose” on.  Stop and sniff the air with short strong whiffs.  What do you smell?  Bark?  Tree essence?  Flowers?  Mulch?  Low tide?

9. Touch things.  Feel the texture of tree bark.    Touch a smooth flower petal. Brush you hand against some leaves.  Hold a handful of

touch the old cedar  ©2011 kimcrayton

soil. ( Read this to find out why soil makes us happier and smarter)

10. Go alone or with a companion.  A silent wander alone has many benefits, and can deepen peacefulness and inner balance. But to wander with a companion is great because you can share experiences with each other during and after a wander.  Wandering with a companion also supports healthy relationship building, and it’s always nice to have a witness to back you up if you see something truly amazing! (FYI: children are outstanding wander companions)

Now go ahead and plan a luscious wander!


Mindful Living: Open yourself to Awe

Recently, a research study was conducted at Stanford University on how living in a state of awe expands people’s perception of time, alters decision making, and enhances well-being.  Part of the study found that “experiences of awe bring people into the present moment, which underlies awe’s capacity to adjust time perception, influence decisions, and make life feel more satisfying than it would otherwise.”

Cultivating a sense of awe everyday, at least once a day, benefits our well being in so many ways. Living in the mindspace of awe can connect us to the world around us with a sense of wonder.  It can remind us of the beautiful miracle that is our universe.

“Awe” ©2011 kim crayton

In Maslow’s classic text Religions, Values, and Peak Experiences (one of my all time favorites) he wrote,

“…the sacred is in the ordinary, it is to be found in one’s daily life, in ones neighbors, friends and family, in one’s backyard….To be looking elsewhere for miracles is to me a sure sign of ignorance that everything is miraculous.”

When we mindfully observe what is happening in the moment, it is difficult not to feel the awe of living.

This morning I looked out my window and saw three bald eagles floating in the blue sky wind over Lake Union.  That was pretty awesome.  When was the last time you experienced an awesome moment?

Look to where you are at this moment, where you are right now, and experience the wonder of something.  Let yourself truly feel the awe of the moment.  Today is an awesome day.

30 Seconds of Nature: Rainbow Halo Around the Sun

Do you have just thirty seconds?

The Thirty Second video project started because I wanted to capture just small glimpses and sounds in nature to remember once I returned to the city.  Now I will share them on this blog as small 30 second nature meditations. Here is a 30 second video of a rainbow halo around the sun.  This was recorded at the Nisqually National Wildlife Refuge.

(Hopefully I will become more skilled at taken a smoother video during this project!)

Mindfulness and iPhoneography: A Daily Practice

I am a relatively new at taking photos.

I have no formal photography training. I don’t consider myself a photographer; rather, I capture and edit images with a device.   One thing that surprised me so much about acquiring a iPhone is how many photos I take with it.  Nowadays, phones are not just phones; they are devices with a multitude of features that can help us organize information and simplify our lives.

All of the pictures on my website and blog are taken with or edited on an iPhone.  I take photos everyday as a mindfulness practice.  Some insights I have gained from this practice are:

1. The relationship between light and dark.

dancing tree ©2012 kim crayton

2. They way the world looks in “reality” vs. in the mind’s eye

3. Personal expression through editing captures a mood or spirit of a moment in time

4. Reflection on something greater/other the my “self”

Taking photographs in nature is a inspiring  way to connect more deeply to the environment.  It is meditative to pay close attention to a tree, and all it’s very unique qualities.   Photographing the tree allows for mindfulness and creativity playfully to blend and then allows for space to turn inward for authentic expression.

I photograph trees as they are from a particular angle. But while editing, I impose my expression and interpretation of the tree.  There is a tree I like to visit.  It is hard to miss on my walks, and every season it has a different look to it.  Having a regular tree to visit year after year is like visiting an old friend.  This tree is not one I am able to get close to physically, but I see it up alongside the path.  When I look up at this tree, it looks like it is always moving, always dancing in a very angular and rhythmic way. I appreciate it’s way of being, and the opportunity to cultivate mindful observation and creativity.

Summer Early Bird Reiki Sessions

sun in branches ©2012 kim crayton

I have to say: I love Reiki in the morning.

Reiki is actually fine with me any time of day.  However, it’s such a positive, gentle, way to start the day. A new day represents a new beginning.  I always feel held by the light and energy of the rising sun as the life that surrounds us awakens, especially this time of year when it is the lightest and brightest!

Come set your intention for the day and schedule a reiki session between 7am and 11am on Wednesday mornings and receive a one hour session for $40.00.  Email me at cedarsuncounseling dot com or call 206-486-2997 to schedule your appointment today!

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In gratitude,

Kim